You know what I’m sick of?
I’m entirely fucking sick of society. Where every girl on the planet is ultimately a slut in the eyes of everyone who isn’t themselves because they dress too skimpy, or flirt with too many guys, or have sex with more than one person, or like more than one person at a time, or what the fuck ever reasons everyone else seems to have for calling any other person a slut. You know what? THAT IS THAT WOMAN’S PREFERENCE!
Who are you, or I to tell her otherwise or judge her for it? Do you know her track record with guys? Probably not. You know as much about her as she does about you, and what you think you know is more than likely hear-say and only pieces of the truth - if there is any truth to it at all!
I’m fucking sick to death of society establishing what is considered beautiful or worthy of love and what isn’t! Where if a girl is bigger than a size 4 she’s considered over-weight, uncontrollable, shameful, hideous, unattractive, or dirty. Or if a girl is thinner than a size 4 she’s anorexic, unhealthy, a sociopath, a bimbo, a crackhead. THE SAME HYPOCRISY GOES FOR THE JUDGEMENTS AGAINST GUYS!
If you wear too many clothes you’re a prude and don’t ‘put out’ which is supposedly a bad thing now because kids are losing their virginity at age fucking 9 anymore! And it isn’t because it’s that appealing most of the time - half these kids have no moral or understanding of what they are doing and are just told it’s something you have to do to be popular or an adult and if you haven’t done so by a certain age or in a certain amount of time it’s lame or unacceptable. Then if you wear too little you’re a skank or a slut and your morals are just as loose as your private parts - which they’ve convinced themselves must be very loose from all the people you’ve allegedly slept with. And of course you sleep with everyone and everything with a pulse and are nasty and raunchy. And even worse there are RAPISTS out there who use it as an excuse to commit an act of complete HATRED and VIOLENCE against people and say things like. “What did they expect in that outfit?” Or - “She was begging for it.” PARDON MOI; But what we expected when we walked out in that fucking outfit was for us to feel attractive - yet another fucking form of society setting standards for what is generally attractive. And if we are ‘begging for it’ then you’d better get it on a fucking recording where we’re saying, “Please I want you to fuck me violently against my will. Strangle me, tear my clothes off and force yourself on me and slam my head against the ground because I deserved it for dressing this way. Because I’m a bitch and you knew that just by looking at me.” NO ONE SAYS THAT SHIT! NO ONE!
EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL DAMMIT! EVERYONE! Everyone on this Earth has the right to be told they are beautiful and should be told by at least one person every single day! Because if people did that more often then maybe there wouldn’t be so many suicides or murderers. Maybe people would feel more confident in themselves and people wouldn’t stay in abusive relationships or be depressed or feel the need to inflict pain on themselves!
I am tired of society making me feel like I’m not good enough because my eyes are too big and it makes me look like an alien or a cat or a deer caught in headlights. Or because I wear bright flashy colors in my hair. I’m not allowed to ever get upset about things or cry or cuss and have to let people walk all over me because I’m perky and too innocent and naive to stand up to anyone. Or because I’m short by society’s standards - I have to deal with people always calling me dwarf or shorty and cracking horrible and obnoxious short jokes at me when I reach for things or can’t see over something. Then guys being like, “Damn, baby! You got a black girl’s ass.” I HAVE SEEN PLENTY OF BLACK WOMEN WITH HUGE BUTTS AND HAVE SEEN PLENTY WITH FLAT BUTTS! Someone’s skin tone doesn’t determine how their body is supposed to be shaped or how they are supposed to look! My butt is shaped the way my butt is shaped naturally regardless of my skin tone. And the statement is fucking redundant because I didn’t steal some random black woman’s ass. That would be terrifying, sadistic, and strange. If I did someone would talk shit about me for getting plastic surgery to put the butt on.
WHICH FOR ANYONE WHO HAS ANY NEGATIVE OPINIONS ABOUT PEOPLE WHO GET PLASTIC SURGERY - THIS IS FOR YOU!
The people who generally get plastic surgery, do so because they lack confidence in themselves to such a drastic point they are willing to undergo extremely risky procedures - which in many cases people have died during the procedure to look the way society makes them think they should. Injecting unnatural and foreign chemicals into your body is not okay, but what’s ten times worse is whatever brought them to feeling like they HAD to do it. So why would you snub your nose at someone who’s already drastically altered themselves because society told them they weren’t good enough to the point they went that far only to make them feel that way all over again!?
GUYS; YOU DON’T HELP WOMEN FEEL ANY BETTER ABOUT THEMSELVES!
LADIES; YOU DON’T HELP GUYS FEEL ANY BETTER ABOUT THEMSELVES, EITHER!
All guys want anymore is sex sex sex - big fucking titties, a tight cat, a small waist, and a donk’ and women complain about this when all they want is some Fabio looking bad-boy with a big bank roll, and redundantly hoping he will be prince charming.
When guys are only looking at the physical rather than the emotional and mental aspects they end up wondering why the fuck their girlfriend is cheating on them, only out for his money, shallow, or a rude psychotic bitch. BECAUSE YOU ONLY FOCUSED ON THE LEAST IMPORTANT ASPECTS OF HER!
Or these women who date these unattainable bad boys - always in trouble but it’s cool because he has a six pack and a lot of money. Then wonder why he’s abusive, or why he’s locked up, or why you’re getting no respect. BECAUSE YOU ARE LIVING IN A FAIRYTALE AND PLACE YOUR EXPECTATIONS OF REAL PEOPLE TOO HIGH!
What the fuck ever happened to people having respect for each other and fucking caring about how happy they made each other? Where it wasn’t about looks, but the good that people brought to your life? Now it’s all so cliche and stupid!
Girls like Miley Cyrus have been called bubblegum and prude. People told her she was too goody-goody to make it big after Disney, and had no sex appeal and wasn’t exciting enough. Now that she’s sexed it up, gone and cut off all her hair, is twerking on stage and talking about drugs and gone drastically over to the dark side everyone is ridiculing her and treating her even worse than before.
THIS IS WHY I’M SICK OF SOCIETY. THIS IS WHAT IS WRONG WITH IT. IT IS ALL STEREOTYPICAL, HYPOCRITICAL, SEXIST, DISRESPECTFUL, BULLSHIT!
Society, MAKE UP YOUR FUCKING MINDS AND BE REALISTIC ABOUT IT! Society, STOP MAKING EVERYONE FEEL SELF-CONSCIOUS ABOUT THEMSELVES! You have no right to do so! No one, not a single person is perfect or gets it right 100% of the time! No one is ever going to fully live up to these insane standards that the rest of the world is setting for them!
I have and always will be a person who is going to tell people how beautiful they are - no matter how they treat me, because the rest of the fucking world tells them enough of the opposite day in and day out. There has to be at least one person in this world who let’s people know that it is okay not to be the bogus definition of perfection, that they are good enough no matter the color, size, layers, or material things.
But surely I can’t be the only one! Please, please! I hope someone reads this and understands just how upsetting these things are and feels like I do. I want to see more people stand up against these things.